Wednesday, April 7, 2010

The one that got away

I spend much of my life looking for men of God to follow in their dust. It seems the Lord is very particular when growing these men. It only stands to reason why these men are so few and far between. I often enjoy these older men who become "sages" after their years of maturing. When one of these men are found, I want to draw from their wisdom and personality everything I possibly can. I have been fortunate to have been led to a few of these precious gems in my life and will continue the search. Young men and boys need these seasoned influences in their lives. Older mentors ready and willing to invest more than money into their lives but to invest themselves. Paul, in all his wisdom and education followed in the footsteps of Gamaliel; one of the greatest rabbis in history. Not only did Paul learn the Scripture, along with all its meanings, but I am sure he drew much wisdom about life as well. Paul was always anxious to take on others to share this wisdom. Barnabas and Timothy were among the more well known, but I suspect their were scores of young men hungry for the care and leadership that Paul could offer.

Paul, in all humility, knowing he himself was not perfect, as he addressed himself as the "chief" of sinners, was committed to following Christ in his life and desired for others to follow his example.

"Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ." 1 Cor 11:1 NKJV

No one on this earth is perfect but many have the desire to live in such a way that will be pleasing to the Lord. We must all live as unto the Lord in everything we do and continue to grow in Christ.

It is important to all of us as men and women that we find others to include in our lives that help us grow in Christ. I personally found Gary Taylor to be one of those men and was so looking forward to many years with him. My friend and mentor, Gary Taylor, 58, went home to be with his Lord last night very unexpectedly. God allowed him to finish well. We enjoyed the final Men’s Fraternity meeting for this season together with two of his sons and his brother David yesterday. What a blessing God bestowed on this family and this community through him.

Now I feel I am back to square one, in search of another male mentor to disciple me as I look to find younger men to disciple. Although Gary will be missed, I know for sure I will see him again. Not only in eternity, but through the legacy he has left behind in his sons and his disciples.

In Christ

Bro. Martin

1 comment:

  1. "A godly man is not macho, hard, tough, womanizing or egotistical. Rather, he is a warrior, a mentor, a friend and a priest. His goal is Christlikeness. He is a builder, nurturer, instructor, provider and protector. He is strong yet sensitive and firm yet tender with his children. He is strong yet romantic with his wife. He is teachable and not intimidated by the gifts and strength in others –– including those innate strengths of his wife. He is a leader and also able to follow. He leads at home; yet, he may lead or follow on the job or at church. He desires God above all relationships and will not compromise or turn in the face of adversity.

    He is both serious and fun loving. He can destroy evil and build character in others. He disciplines, protects and loves with the same hands and heart. Confidence, not arrogance or boastfulness, are part of his makeup. His creed is integrity and his character is unshakable. His word is his bond; you can trust what he says. Those around him become stronger because of him. They can stand more steadily because he has helped them become spiritually strong. He is driven and balanced, not lazy, shiftless or impulsive.

    The godly man is accountable. If a man will not be held accountable, he is a danger to himself and those around him. With spiritual maturity the godly man walks in the fullness of God’s Spirit and Word. He brings vision from his heart and is led by God’s Spirit. His vision is always bigger than himself and is passed on to those who come behind him." - Eddie L. Long

    This is a snippet from a book but could have been written to describe Mr. Taylor - what a testimony.

    My father worked for Gary at TTB all of my childhood years and my mother worked at Dwain Taylor Chevrolet so stories about and members of the Taylor family from "Grandmother Taylor" to her "three little Taylor boys" have always been familiar to me. It was a priviledge to be reacquainted with them as an adult over the past 6 months. Lifting many prayers for his wife, sons, family and friends.

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